They don’t want to say the N-word, but they do want to talk about why some people do. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn’t ever stop needing to be explained.Ģ.
From moisturizing, to protecting with a satin cap, there is always a new and interesting thing for your guy to discover. It might start with an innocent “did you get a haircut” right after you wash your hair and there is shrinkage–but it does not end…EVER…after that. They will never understand the hair thing. Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. In high school, there were other Black students, but none of them in my close-knit drama and speech class circles. Growing up in Northern Kentucky, I got used to being the only Black kid in most of my classes.